Chaulk another one up for James

Well, after several visits with the doctors and an MRI, James has to have another knee surgery. Not on the one he already had one on which was the left, but now the right which is from the accident. He originally was experiencing pain in his heel which eventually went to his knee. He went to see the doctor about it in which he told him he needed an MRI, which led to finding out the miniscus either needs to be reparied or removed. In the long run, it would be best for him to have it repaired, but unfortunately its a 6-8 week recovery, and we simply cant afford for him to be off work that long. We barely made it by when he was off work for 5 weeks living off savings which is gone, there just simply isnt any way we could do it again. So, James has decided to just have it completely removed which the recovery is only a couple days. I worry for him a great deal, with only being 24 and already having 4 major knee surgerys, his future isnt looking to bright right now. The that makes me feel the worst and sick the most about all of this, is that I cant do whats best for my husband because I cant afford to. I dont know. Im praying we can work something out but for now he's pretty set on having it removed. Any extra prayers would be nice and sincerely greatly appreciated.

She gave me the verse...

...ACTS 15:28,29

28 For it seemed good to the Holy Ghost, and to us, to lay upon you no greater burden than these necessary things;

29 That ye abstain from meats offered to a idols, and from blood, and from things strangled, and from fornication: from which if ye keep yourselves, ye shall do well. Fare ye well.

Still dont see where it says to not do blood transfusions....

Question

Ok, so I need your help...I work with a Jehovas Witness and I must say it has been really interesting learning about what she believes and why. We have some interesting religious discussions, and one that just came up was how they dont take blood transfusions because in the "bible says not to." She was saying its in Acts where they were talking about how they ate blood and that Christ told them not to, so thats how they get that...??? Um, Im trying to find that in Acts and I cant find it! Mind you, they have theyre own bible and I asked her if it was in her bible and she said "Its in all the bibles", but I cant find it. Can any of you help me out on this? I just wanna see the scripture that they have manipulated to their own meaning. Its really sad if you ask me. She is the most arrogant and ignorant person I have ever met. They will shun you if you are not of their religion, and I know would not help someone out if they were not their religion. I have seen it first hand, it makes my blood boil. Oh well, I know who I am and I know the truth so I try to not let it get to me.
Anyways, thanks for helping in advance!!

Gordon B. Hinckley

Being a lover of out beloved late Gordon B. Hinckley, I decided I needed to pay a little tribute to him as well. Being the prophet when I first joined the church, I always felt close to him, he spoke the most to me. He was such a gentle loving man, but was so strong and firm in his teachings and example. And that he was, an amazing example I will always remember. So I will share some of my favorite quotes from him:

“This is my prayer for all of us—'Lord, increase our faith.' Increase our faith to bridge the chasms of uncertainty and doubt. . . . Grant us faith to look beyond the problems of the moment to the miracles of the future. . . . Give us faith to do what is right and let the consequence follow.”

“This cause will roll on in majesty and power to fill the earth. Doors now closed to the preaching of the gospel will be opened. The Almighty, if necessary, may have to shake the nations to humble them and cause them to listen to the servants of the living God. Whatever is needed will come to pass.”

“Under the plan of heaven, the husband and the wife walk side by side as companions, neither one ahead of the other, but a daughter of God and a son of God walking side by side. Let your families be families of love and peace and happiness. Gather your children around you and have your family home evenings, teach your children the ways of the Lord, read to them from the scriptures, and let them come to know the great truths of the eternal gospel as set forth in these words of the Almighty.”

Concert Time!

Its official, James and I are going to see Josh Gracin in Concert!!! I am so stoked!!! For those of you less familiar with him, here are some of his hits:

*We werent crazy

*Nothin to lose

*I want to live

*Stay with me (Brass Bed) (my personal favorite)

Anyways, he's coming to our local town Neosho, only a half hour away, so I didnt mind spending a couple extra dollars for good seats since we wont be spending it on gas to travel. I begged James a couple weeks ago to go see Jason Mraz in St. Louis, but since its a 5 hour drive and on a Sunday, it was a no go. So when I saw last night that Josh Gracin was coming to town, one of my favorite country singers, I HAD to go! It took a little convincing of James, but since we got this whole love thing going on, he couldnt say no:) Now, the only thing that would make this perfect is if my friends Nicole and Anna were here to go with me, we had some good times jamming out to his music:)

Yay for good times and good memories to come!!!

Humility & Gratitude

If there is one thing I am grateful for in my life, it is my husband. No matter what my faults, no matter how crazy I get, he always loves me at the end of the day. I have been so cruel to him at times, but no matter what Ive done he always forgives and forgets. Me on the other hand, I can hold a grudge like no other. But I am learning from him, slowly but surely I am learning.

So this is a dedication to my loving husband. Thank you for being you. I could use more people like you in my life:)

Something gettin me through...

"Details In The Fabric"

Calm down

Deep breaths

And get yourself dressed instead

Of running around

And pulling all your threads saying

Breaking yourself up

If it's a broken part, replace it

But, if it's a broken heart then brace it

If it's a broken heart then face it

And hold your own

Know your name

And go your own way

Hold your own

Know your own name

And go your own way

And everything will be fine

Everything will be fine

Hang on

Help is on the way

Stay strong

I'm doing everything

Hold your own

Know your name

And go your own way

Hold your own

Know your name

And go your own way

And everything, everything will be fine

Everything

Are the details in the fabric

Are the things that make you panic

Are your thoughts results of static cling?

Are the things that make you blow

Hell, no reason, go on and scream

If you're shocked it's just the fault

Of faulty manufacturing.

Yeah everything will be fine

Everything in no time at all

Everything

Hold your own

And know your name

And go your own way

Are the details in the fabric (Hold your own, know your name)

Are the things that make you panic

Are your thoughts results of static cling? (Go your own way)

Are the details in the fabric (Hold your own, know your name)

Are the things that make you panic (Go your own way)

Is it Mother Nature's sewing machine?

Are the things that make you blow (Hold your own, know your name)

Hell no reason go on and scream

If you're shocked it's just the fault (Go your own way)

Of faulty manufacturing

Everything will be fine

Everything in no time at all

Hearts will hold

-Jason Mraz

Amen.

Awkward Encounter

Im having all sorts of encounters lately, but this one tops em all!! So I was just back in our break room getting a drink. Well, I was digging out some ice (its kinda broken and doesnt make much ice) with my hand full fledged in the freezer when the president of the bank walks in! Im just like, "HI!" So I pull myself out of the freezer and while getting my drink he says, "I like how your preserving energy here, keeping your lights off back here." Side note: that was not on purpose our lights being off, we have a hallway that leads to the room that has a light and lights it up suffiently, so sometimes we just forget to turn it on, or no ones been back there yet to turn it on. Well, knowing this I just say, "Yeah, it really helps!" What a goober I am. So needless to say I walked out of there feeling utterly mortified. Good going Jeannette. Yay me.

Driving Encounter

So Ive been meaning to write about this because it was so funny to me. And those of you who know me and my driving will appreciate this Im sure:)
Well, to start off I should mention how terrible the drivers are here. They all go below the speed limit, stop at green lights (sound familiar?) and slow down about a mile before they actually turn. I could go on and on but I wouldnt want to bore you.
So I was driving one day and was getting ready to turn to go to Sams. Well, whenever Im at this particular intersection, if Im ever behind someone they always approach it at a glacier speed and take forever to get through, if they ever do. Well, this particular day I was behind someone who was actually going the speed limit and just glided through leaving me plenty of time to make it through. I was stunned! I couldnt believe someone from this area was driving normal! Well, I looked at the liscense plate to see which of the four states it was from (Arkansas, Missouri, Kansas or Oklahoma) and come to find out, they were from Michigan! Ha! Should have known they were a fellow easterner (is that how you spell it?) Anyways, I just thought that was hilarious, I had to share. I dont think there will ever be a day I will be impressed with the drivers here. Who knows! Till then, I will keep to myself and bite my tongue.

7563 County Road 304

Well, its official, our house is up for sale!

Now, the waiting process, again. Were always waiting on something.

So I know youve all been dying (Mom) to see pictures of the house that we have COMPLETELY gutted and remodeled. There will be more later, this is all we have for now. Ill give ya some specs:

*2000 sq. feet

*2 acres

*3 bed, 2 bath

*master suite with jacuzzi tub

*new septic, heating & air, concrete sub flooring, electric, sheet rock,etc

*new carpet, lamanite flooring, lighting, paint, trim

So yeah, pretty much brand new! Its been a love hate relationship, the house and I. But now that its done I love it! Its in an awesome quiet little neighborhood, it reminds me of Mayberry. But alas, we must sell it, and sell it we will!!

Had to take a picture with the sign!

The kitchen

The formal living room and front entry way

The front view

James tearing down our little shed, it was so warn out it needed to be. So now we get to have a big bonfire!

True Beauty

"For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry. For beautiful hair, let a child run his/her fingers through it once a day. For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone. People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone. Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms. As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands; one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others."

-Audrey Hepburn

Drum Roll Please...

Okay, so you ready for this? I got my papers today, and I cant BELIEVE the things stated! Its unreal! It is indeed from the incompetent lady that hit me and her idiotic lawyers. I cant believe they really think they have a case against me. I will share some of whats mentioned in the papers, I think you all will laugh:

9. Defendant Jeanette (yeah, thats right, they spelt my name wrong! Why I otta...) was negligent in the following acts and ommissions:

(d) in failing to stop, slow, change speed, swerve, or otherwise take evasive action after the danger of a collision with Plaintiffs vehicle or person was apparent or should have been apparent to defendant

HELLO! I mean really, COME ON PEOPLE! She hit me last second, I didnt even have a chance to react, she thought she could beat me to the punch and cut me off to turn, and IM the one thats supposed to take evasive action? Ugh.

This ones my favorite

(f) in traveling through the intersection when she was required to stop, thereby failing to drive with the highest degree of care.

HELLO! I had the right of way! She was supposed to yeild to me! Not to mention it was a green light, I didnt know you were supposed to stop at green lights, Ill make sure to make a note of that. Ugh.

Anyways, Im not terribly worried about it now since talking to my insurance agent. He calmed my nerves reassuring me these never go anywhere, especially this one since she has no case to begin with. I really dont have anything to worry about at all for the most part, the insurance company takes care of everything, the lawyer and all. So I just sit back and wait for them to tell me its all over. I just keep trying remind myself it could be worse, just think of Randy Pausch and his smiling face.